Culture · Essay
Día de Muertos: the night the house is left open
On 1 and 2 November Mexican families build an altar, lay a path of marigold petals to the door, and wait up. On the ofrenda, the two nights, La Catrina, and the argument about where the whole thing came from.Written to last.
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The detail that explains Día de Muertos is not the skulls. It is the petals. In the last days of October, in towns across central Mexico, families buy cempasúchil by the armful, pull the heads apart, and lay a line of orange petals from the street door across the yard and up to the altar in the front room. The line is a path. It is there so that the dead, who are understood to be arriving, can find the house they are looking for among all the other houses.
Everything else on the altar follows from that premise. If someone is coming a long way, they will be thirsty, so there is a glass of water. They will be tired, so there is a chair. They liked a particular brand of cigarettes, or mole with a great deal of chilli, or a bottle of beer, so those are set out too. The photograph goes at the centre, working as an address rather than as decoration, so that the right person arrives at the right table.
The ofrenda is usually built on two, three or seven levels, and what goes on it is closer to a household inventory than a liturgy. There is cempasúchil, the Mexican marigold, whose scent is said to be strong enough for the dead to follow. There is copal resin burning in a small brazier. There is salt, for purification, and water, and candles, one for each person expected. There is pan de muerto, a sweet bread with a knob of dough at the centre and strips laid across it that are read as bones. There are sugar skulls with names iced across the forehead, and these are frequently the names of the living, given to the living, which is a joke and also not one.
An ofrenda built up in levels. Nothing on it is generic: the food, the drink and the photograph are chosen for one named person. Photograph by Luisroj96, CC BY-SA 3.0, via Wikimedia Commons.
Above it all hangs papel picado, tissue paper cut into scenes and perforated so finely that it moves in any draught. The movement is part of the point: it is taken as evidence that something has come into the room.
Nothing on the altar is generic. A family that lost a baby puts out toys and pan dulce and no chilli. A family whose grandfather worked the fields puts out his hat. The practice is a portrait rather than an offering, and the skill it asks for is memory, in particular the sort of memory that keeps hold of what somebody liked rather than what they achieved.
The observance runs across two days and the distinction between them is precise. The night of 31 October into 1 November belongs to the angelitos, children who died, and their part of the altar is lighter: white flowers, sweets, small candles, no alcohol. On the night of 1 November into 2 November the adults come, and the altar changes accordingly.
Families keep vigil in different ways depending on where they are. On Janitzio, the island in Lake Pátzcuaro in Michoacán, Purépecha families sit through the night in the cemetery with candles and the graves banked in marigold, and the photographs of that vigil are the images that carried Día de Muertos around the world. In San Andrés Mixquic on the southern edge of Mexico City the graves are lit at nine in the evening in an event called the alumbrada. In Oaxaca, comparsas move through the streets in costume, closer to carnival than to a wake.
The tradition is also unevenly distributed, which the postcards tend not to show. It is deepest in the centre and the south. In much of northern Mexico it was thin until the second half of the twentieth century and arrived largely through schools, national television and the state.
The story told most often is a straight line: the Mexica kept festivals for the dead in the months called Miccailhuitontli and Huey Miccaílhuitl, the Spanish arrived, the dates were shifted onto All Saints and All Souls, and the practice survived underneath. It is a good story and parts of it are supported. Ancestor observance in Mesoamerica is well attested, and a great deal of what is done on the altar has no counterpart in European Catholic practice.
But historians have pushed back hard on that straight line. The Mexican historian Elsa Malvido argued at length that the modern national holiday is substantially a twentieth-century construction: that the practices are recognisably those of Catholic All Souls as kept across the Spanish-speaking world, that the specifically Aztec genealogy was asserted and promoted by the post-revolutionary state as part of building a national culture, and that colonial-era evidence for direct continuity is thinner than the popular account assumes.
The honest position is that both things are true at once. Día de Muertos is genuinely old, genuinely Indigenous in much of its content, and also genuinely modern in its shape and its symbolism, assembled and reassembled by the people keeping it. That is what living traditions do. UNESCO inscribed the indigenous festivity dedicated to the dead on its Representative List in 2008, having proclaimed it a Masterpiece in 2003, and the citation is careful to describe a practice that communities are still making rather than a survival held in amber.
The skeleton in the enormous feathered hat is now the face of the holiday, and she began as satire. The printmaker José Guadalupe Posada made a zinc etching around 1910 of a skull wearing a fashionable European hat and called it La Calavera Garbancera: a garbancera was a chickpea seller, and the word had come to mean an Indigenous Mexican who denied their own origins and dressed as a European. The image was a caricature of social climbing, published in the cheap broadsheets Posada worked for, and he died in 1913 in poverty in a rented room.
She was given the rest of her body, her name and her afterlife thirty years later. Diego Rivera put her at the centre of his 1947 mural Sueño de una tarde dominical en la Alameda Central, in a full gown with a feather boa, holding Posada's arm on one side and a young Rivera's hand on the other, and called her La Catrina. Everything since, the face paint, the costumes, the souvenirs, descends from that mural rather than from anything ancient.
The Desfile de Día de Muertos in Mexico City draws hundreds of thousands of people and did not exist before 2016. Its immediate ancestor is fictional: the opening sequence of the 2015 Bond film Spectre, which staged an enormous Day of the Dead parade through the Zócalo for the camera. Visitors arrived expecting to see it, found there was no such thing, and the city put one on the following year.
It is easy to be sour about this, and a number of Mexican commentators were. It is also a fair description of how traditions have always worked. A practice is watched, copied, misunderstood, and then the misunderstanding is adopted and becomes real, and in thirty years somebody's grandmother will remember the parade as something that was always there. What matters is who ends up owning it. The parade is now organised in Mexico City, by Mexicans, with local comparsas and cartonería workshops, which is a different thing from a film set.
The instruction inside the holiday is unusually concrete. It does not ask anyone to feel a particular way about their dead. It asks them to remember what the person drank, to buy that thing, to put it on a table, and to say the name out loud in front of the family so that the children hear it. Grief is not the mechanism. Specificity is.
That is also the difficulty. An altar can only be laid for someone whose particulars are still known, and particulars go first. A photograph survives a generation, a face survives two, a preference in coffee survives about as long as the person who was there to notice it. The families who keep the best altars are the ones who talked, out loud, while there was still someone to correct them.
Which is a strange thing to have to plan for. The details an ofrenda runs on are the ones nobody writes down: the brand she smoked, how he took his coffee, the song he would not stop playing in the car. While a person is alive those things are too ordinary to record. Thirty years later they are the whole of what is missing, and the marigolds have nothing to lead anyone to.
What is actually on the altar